Why Do We Need A Soulmate?
Humans are by nature social animals. Social connection, intimacy, and strong emotional interaction with fellow human beings are essential to us. Relationships are the basis of positive emotions and support, which are important for our happiness in life. Meaningful and intimate relationships significantly impact our mental wellness and happiness. It is perhaps for this reason that people are finding a romantic relationship. Have you ever wondered how to manifest your soulmate easily?
Study reveals that having positive relationships improve our odds of survival by 50 percent. Perhaps it is due to the reason that, from an evolutionary perspective, isolation threatens survival. No matter if you are currently experiencing a miserable relationship, attempting to transform your standstill relationship into a lovey-dovey one or wanting to attract someone special into your life, the power of attraction is readily available— as it has always been, to help you out.
Questions To Ponder
Before learning how to manifest your soulmate, it is essential to ponder over some questions. It is undoubtedly priceless to have a healthy and happy relationship. If you want to know how to manifest your soulmate with the help of the law of attraction, the first step you must take is to understand yourself. Invest some time alone with no distraction whatsoever and ask yourself a few revealing questions: What makes you happy? What is more important to you— the person’s characters or external beauty? Will this special someone support your goals? What are you expecting so that you enjoy this relationship?
Examining the answers that spring to mind will help you to identify some important aspects of your life that need improvement before attracting a soulmate.
Ask yourself the Following Questions
Do I regularly do things I enjoy doing? Do I care for myself with the love and respect I feel I deserve? If your answers to these 2 questions are negative, then you simply have to work on increasing self-love. If you know how to love yourself better and do things that make you happy, then you’ll exude your love to others more easily and effectively.
Also, ask yourself, “Do I enjoy spending time with myself?” If you dislike your own company, how can you be expecting another person to enjoy spending time with you
People, who are unsuccessful in their romance, build up a habit of seeing themselves in a negative light. They think and gradually believe that they don’t deserve to be loved. With this kind of negative belief about themselves, they unknowingly impede others from expressing their love to them. Ultimately, they find themselves struggling to keep a relationship or not succeeding in finding the right partner. In other words, they continuously believe that they are lonely and all alone in this world and hence, they attract more loneliness.
Self-care Opposed to Putting Yourself Last
Even though self-care can have a different meaning for different people, it is generally about taking care of your needs, your health and happiness if we were to put it in simple terms. If we always neglect self-care by attempting to meet the need of others first, it can harm our self-esteem.
Please do not be mistaken that you should always put your own needs first as it is sometimes fine to put yourself last when you are in a relationship. What I am saying is that if you routinely take care of others’ needs before your own, you’ll attract more of the same— others putting you last. If you believe that you don’t need to care and love yourself, your mindset can slowly sabotage your relationship’s success.
The Importance of Gratitude
Every so often all you need to mend a broken relationship is a little gratitude. Honestly, how often do we really take a step back to think about how truly grateful we feel inside us to have those people who make our life worthwhile? If you feel thankful to have your soulmate by your side, you will unwittingly discover new positive qualities in him/her, which will naturally provide a booster shot for your relationship. Gratitude is unquestionably one of the most essential tools to manifest the love of your life.
Get a piece of paper and pen down what you like about your partner and how grateful for having him/her in your life. Next, make another list of his/her positive qualities and feel grateful for having them.
It always works to think back to what brought the two of you together in the beginning. Recollect some of the joyful moments you shared together back then and write them down. Bear in mind to avoid thinking about anything negative happening at the current moment in your relationship while practicing this gratitude exercise. Remember, if you stay focused on the negative aspects of your relationship, you’re unintentionally asking the universe to add further negativity to your relationship. On the other hand, if you were to keep focusing on gratitude, the universe will provide you with more reasons to feel grateful.
Steps to Manifesting Your Soulmate
- Get into a relaxed and comfortable position— you can either sit or lie down and slowly take a few deep breaths. As you exhale, softly say the word “relax” and give your body, your mind, and your heart the time to relax. Close your eyes.
- Now visualize yourself on the “perfect date”. You are feeling calm, relax, and at ease with yourself as well as the person you are with. Imagine that you are having lots of fun and being fully engaged with that person. Vividly picture your soulmate and envision presenting the best version of yourself.
- Visualize the feelings – feel the wind, the sunshine, and the strong romantic chemistry between the two of you. Let the positive romantic energy fill up every molecule of your body. Spend some time visualizing the wonderful moments with your partner. Take a few deep breathes prior to opening your eyes.
You can create your love life when you learn how to manifest your soulmate. Manifesting the desired romantic relationship, not something impossible. Bear in mind that sometimes the road to finding true love can be a lengthy one but if you believe in yourself, the universe will guide you down that road smoothly; provide you the needed support and direction to the fulfillment of love.